Stalking involves repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, or contact that causes fear or concern for safety. In teens, stalking can manifest through persistent texting, following someone or monitoring their activities online. Understanding what constitutes stalking helps parents recognize early signs and take appropriate action.
Obsessive communication
Teens who send excessive messages, whether through texts or social media, may exhibit early stalking behavior. This can include constant texting or leaving numerous voicemails, often without receiving responses.
Monitoring social media
If your teen frequently checks or comments on someone’s social media posts, it may indicate an unhealthy preoccupation. This behavior often escalates to creating fake profiles to monitor the person’s activities.
Following or showing up uninvited
Teenagers who frequently appear at places where the person they are interested in spends time without invitation may be engaging in stalking. This behavior can extend to following someone from place to place.
Intense jealousy
Extreme jealousy or possessiveness over a friend or romantic interest may signal potential stalking behavior. This includes questioning the person’s relationships or demanding to know their whereabouts.
Threatening behavior
Making threats against someone or their loved ones, even if they seem minor or joking, can indicate stalking tendencies. Such behavior often aims to control or intimidate the other person.
Taking action and supporting your teen
If you notice these signs of stalking, engage in open dialogue with your teen. Encourage them to express their feelings and understand the impact of their actions. If your teen faces stalking charges, you may want to seek help from a legal professional.
In Washington, the juvenile justice system offers programs focusing on rehabilitation and education. Connect with professionals who can provide counseling and support. Addressing these behaviors early can help your teen understand healthy relationships and avoid future legal issues.